Cant decide between girlfriend and wife?

Ok here is my answer. I dont think u r going to hear what im going to say but here goes. I would leave your gf and go be with your wife. First off the gf is pushing u. If she pushes u and u make a mistake u lose your wife obviously. Now what u need to choose between is your family or with this other girl. What i think u should do is sit down with your wife and open up some communication with her and say i need ! If u feel u r done with your lover or gf then do not tell your wife just hide it. But once u start sleeping with your wife again dont fool around again!Next time just end the marriage first.